Human Behavior Driven By Fear

Some could say fear is the touchstone for all growth, and a powerful motivator. Some could say fear is a liability and refuse to acknowledge its importance and vitality. But for some, fear only exists as a result of short term crisis, and they choose to abandoned it. And some, recognize fear, primarily, as a tool and a necessity for life. While fear has its place in the chain of human emotions. Many, including myself, tend to run from it as if it were the plague. Fear of failure, which is one of the biggest fears, naturally clamps its teeth into many, even the ambitious. Comfort, which could be considered fear’s natural enemy, is what many of us cling to as if it were a life preserver, and we were the drowning. Although, as much satisfaction we feel with comfort, it has its drawbacks, and can subtly lead us to complacency. Complacency can be a trap, and many may never completely step out of complacency. So these are things to think about when fear dominates our mindset. There are those who embrace fear as a necessity for life, and choose to face it. This mindset reinforces that failure is an option and can work to our advantage when facing the things we fear the most. Failure can lead us to the truth and gives us better perspective on self evaluation and where we need improvement. When practiced consistently, facing fears becomes a strength and failures become logical building blocks for evolving. I believe in this, but it's also easier said than done. Stepping out of my shell and into the unknown, is an uncomfortable place because it’s foreign, and not what I’m used to. But in writing this essay, and allowing the words to come from my heart, I realize my fears can become my allies and can strengthen my resolve in moving forward in life no matter what the crisis or circumstances. Then we evaluate the ones that give fear ultimate power, and stay stuck (wherever that might be). Fears can paralyze us, and never allow for true ability, passion, potential, and triumph to be experienced in life. This is so sad, because so many people are debilitated by this way of living and in many cases (no fault of their own) have been programmed this way since childhood. To stay in that safe zone and never really give failure, discomfort, humiliation, rejection, heartbreak, loss, or disappointment a fair chance at helping with life assessment and overcoming challenges. I too, have been sidelined in life by these restraints and have allowed fear to dictate future outcomes. I think most of us would be liars if we couldn’t admitted to this at one point in time or another. When we consider all human emotions, we naturally pay homage to what feels good and not what is considered “necessary” for building character and growing as a human being. Sometimes growth hurts, and our fears can stand by the wayside, so we can allow for the necessary changes to happen naturally and organically as intended without interference. Not only do I believe fear interferes with growth, but I also believe fear gives perspective as to what it is we aren’t willing to face head on. In a way, fear opens our minds to what is actually real, if we decide to keep things in perspective and not give fear ultimate power.